7 alpha male characteristics that define a real man

So, what are alpha male characteristics and why the hell should you learn about them? As you might have noticed, one of my favorite topics is how to be the man of women’s fantasy. Although we have arrived at a very high level of consciousness in these modern times, our nature is still dominating how we select our partner. And women are instinctively attracted to a certain type of man (although of course, we are all unique in our personalities), that has a set of characteristics that convey that he is good mate for the women. These are so-called alpha male characteristics, and in this article I will share the main ones. Actually, all those traits boil down to one: confidence! And the whole purpose of this website, is to teach you how to become confident. However, it’s important to be more aware of the variation and different aspects of confidence so that you can more effectively work on becoming a real alpha male.

So, what are the alpha male characteristics that women are so attracted to? Here is a summary of what in my opinion are the most important ones:

7 alpha male characteristics that define a real man

1. A positive attitude about life. Especially when life throws the toughest challenges your way.

2. Self acceptance. A man who accepts himself wholly, that means also his weaknesses, is very attractive to women.

3. He craves abundance and empowerment as opposed to greed and power. He knows that at all times there are options and solutions. Even when most men would fail at seeing this.

4. He isn’t afraid of being a bit witty and push women’s boundaries (while at all times, respecting them!)

5. He is constantly on an adventure of self-discovery and a increasing self-awareness.

6. He knows his value. He knows that women are attracted to him. This way he can be completely himself and not afraid of saying something wrong, or doing something that that won’t be approved by her.

7. Since he accepts himself as a human, including his weaknesses, he can be completely vulnerable when being with a woman. This creates the deepest sense of intimacy between the two of them. This is also the most powerful form of confidence, because only insecure men can’t show their vulnerability.

You CAN all get to the point where you have all those alpha male characteristics in place. It doesn’t have to take much time, but rather determination AND the right method to get there. At times it may seem frustrating and you might have the feeling that nothing is working, but I can tell you that the solution to your problem lies much closer than you think!

A few tips I can give you here. There are a bunch of websites and teachers that tell you “what to do” and “how to act”. They say you have to BE confident, and ACT confident, but many of them don’t actually tell you how to GET there! Masculine Freedom is all about ways of how to transform yourself to become a true alpha male. If you came here to find quick fixes, I’ll have to disappoint you, because you’re wasting your time. However that doens’t mean that becoming an alpha male can’t be QUICK.

So, what is important if you want to become more confident with women? The first and foremost element that you HAVE to have in place is to become present. Presence means that you are fully in your body. You don’t have too many thoughts. You FEEL your emotions, and you are centered in your solar plexus. One of the best and fastest ways to become present is regular meditation.

So, why is presence so important? Well, the main reason I would say is that women feel connection on an emotional level. When you are present you are fully in touch with your emotions and have a strong core. It takes inner power to stay present, because our mind is designed to “escape” into the left hemisphere when we feel pain coming up. This is a protection mechanism that is meant to defend us against painful situations. This is why people who have been abused are oftentimes very “in their own world”.

Now, in order to stay present, it requires a very high level of self awareness so you know when you have to “pull yourself back” into your body. Women are VERY sensitive (on an intuitive level) to these changes. If they can sense that a man is in his full power (that is, present) they will be MASSIVELY attracted to this man.

So, what does it take to stay present when talking to women? Well, it’s actually pretty easy summarize. All you need is the right belief system.  To find out more about beliefs and how to change them, please get my eBook. In short it can be described like this. Over the years we have been conditioned by our experiences, what our parents taught us, what we have seen in the society (to find out more about how this mechanism works, check the bonus audio that comes with my eBook). Some of those teachings haven’t been very positive and they have formed negative emotions in our unconscious mind. Those emotions are what is blocking us from being fully present with women.

So guys, take that to heart. CONNECT to your feelings and your core and practice staying present. Do the exercises described in my eBook and you will start changing your beliefs. Or use the great tool of hypnosis to gain great confidence with women.  The rest will follow. Also, when you are fully present, you are the most “being yourself” and we all know that being yourself is an attractive trait (although no one every tells us HOW to be ourselves. Presence is the key to that). I can assure you, that once you master this, you will become a girl magnet! If you then work on the above alpha male characteristics, you will be unstoppable.

To your success,

Ivan Dyn

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Ivan Dyn – who has written 46 posts on Masculine Freedom.

Ivan Dyn is a transformational life coach. His mission is to empower men to be their true authentic selves and to create deep connections with the women of their desires. Ivan is a trained EFT coach and an NLP practitioner. He is the creator of Masculine Freedom

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